What Men And Women Think After Sex - Funmi Akingbade

Many spouses, intending couples and even young adults have asked these questions over and again. ‘I don’t even know what he thinks of me after sex; do you think she believes I am good sexually?’

 The thoughts of men and women after sex are so important to their partners. Spouses want to know the minds of their partners about sex and the knowledge of this goes a long way in framing their overall concept of sex and marriage relationship. Continue...

Guide To First Time Painless Sex For Virgin Couple - Funmi Akingbade

I have had many opportunities to address and counsel many intending couples whose relationships have ended in a good marriage. However in the course of my interactions, unbelievable as it may sound, I have discovered that close to 50 per cent of such intending couples were in a non-sexual relationship and my phones are always very busy with all types of questions on their wedding nights. It is either they do not know what to do sexually or how to go about it. Many ended up with a sexless or frustrated honeymoon.  

[R18 Must Read] Great Sex Controversy: Clothes On or Clothes Off? (II) - Funmi Akingbade

With clothes on, dry sex can be very interesting even to the stage of orgasm. Dry sex is a kind of non-penetrative sex, where you and your partner smooch each others external organs but with your clothes on.  Wearing some form of white tight shirts, well-fitting jeans that show off your curves can make it a lot easier because it leaves a lot to the imagination without revealing anything and make dry sex appealing. Apart from the fact that this is another variety of passionate sex, it also gives married couple a feel of exploring sexuality where every kiss excites something and every lingering touch or smooching stimulates something else.  

[NEW VIDEO] Sex and Scotch - Jesse Jagz

Official Video to the Sex and Scotch track off the Jagz Nation Vol.1 Album. Video shot by Mex. Enjoy. See video after the cut...

[MUST READ] Great sex controversy: clothes on or clothes off? - Funmi Akingbade

A couple traveled all the way from Abuja to visit me in my Lagos office just to have my opinion over an argument between them. Each partner felt his or her point of view was the best and when it was obvious they ware no longer on talking terms as a result of this  long heated dispute, they put a call to me and told me to expect visitors very soon. To be candid, I was also anxious to know the reason of their visit but at the end of the counseling session, the answer I gave them was simple, ‘Both of you are right; all that is needed here is a fair balance of view.’ I am sure you would love to know the bone of contention between them that was so important to warrant their flight all the way from Abuja to Lagos. Well, I was as amazed as you are and this just points to one thing, a good satisfying healthy sex is not only important; it is very central to a marriage union. It is in reality the icing on the cake of the bond. Please continue >>>>

Sex Education: Good Sex Can Happen Again by Funmi Akingbade

Welcome to 2014. Another beautiful year has rolled in and more than before, this is a year couples should experience the best of their sexual union. One of the many ways couples cheat themselves out of good sexual union is unnecessary sexual suppression. Have you ever wondered why the best sexual encounter tends to be associated with good old days, early days of marriage or one or few stolen moments with strange partner or partners,  or sometimes when the going was good between couples?  

Rediscover sex after stressful situations - Funmi Akingbade

Sometimes when couple’s life has been rocked by major  events like stressful festive periods, child birth, illness, job loss, relocation and so on, it’s likely that the last thing they want to do is stoke the flames of passion because trauma can temporarily and sometimes permanently crush the chemical signals that affect arousal and desire. However, it’s important to note that these negative effects are just temporary and there are ways put the heat back into their love life. Please continue >>>

Natural Ways To Delay Ejaculation by Funmi Akingbade

Last week I promised I was going to share with you some natural ways to delay ejaculation, prevent weak erection, overcome premature ejaculation and increase sexual stamina. Premature ejaculation, or ejaculating before you or your wife want you to, is a common problem that strikes most men at some point in their lives. Several factors can influence when ejaculation occurs, but it can be controlled with some forethought or, in extreme cases, medical intervention. Here are some strategies to help you get over premature ejaculation and improve your sexual stamina...

PHOTOS | Sex, Guns, Cocaine - The 'lunatic lifestyle' of a $100m Poker Playboy

 Dan Bilzerian who earned $1million from a poker game has just returned from a celebratory trip to the Mexican resort of Puerta Vallarta: ‘We loaded a bunch of girls on a plane and went down there.

‘We went zip-lining, rented a yacht, got some baby Bengal tigers and some monkeys at the house. It cost like $10,000.’

With a roar of laughter he adds: ‘One of the tigers bit one of the girls – bit her tit! Thankfully, I didn’t have to buy new implants.’

Welcome to what passes for ordinary in Bilzerian’s most extraordinary life. #See more flamboyant lifestyle photos after the cut...

Cum Quick? No Problemo - See New Gagdet That Helps Men Last ELEVEN Times Longer In Bed

No lady wants a man who cannot satisfy her in bed. A large percent of men experience premature ejaculation (PE), leaving their companions unsatisfied, one Harley Street doctor set about to resolve this problem.

After years of research and development, the first medically-approved climax control programme in the world has been unveiled and aims to help the seven million men in the UK suffering from premature ejaculation.  

WRESTLEMANIA '69'- Man Charged for 'Criminal Damage' After He Broke The Bed and Tore The Curtains During WILD SEX

Adam Disney, 28, and his unidentified partner collapsed a bed and pulled down window drapes in the bedroom while having sex in an apartment Disney used to rent. He ended up in court for causing criminal damage.

A court heard that instead of going to one of their houses, they were unable to hold back their passions and sneaked into an apartment Disney formerly rented.

After neighbours heard 'noises' and the former landlady spotted him smoking at the window, police visited the flat in Wavertree High Street, Liverpool. They found Disney in the flat in the absence of his companion and first charged him with burglary until he admitted the full story.  

Skinny-dipping, Drugs & Migraine - My Road to Stroke at 28 by @Tomiee_418

'Lolade, you are not even listening to me now' Vera screamed. It was her words that jolted me back to reality. My head was heavy, my mind was filled with numerous thoughts. I know what you are thinking, I'm such a thinker, a melancholy you might say, if only you knew me some months back.

Vera Odilichukwu is my sister from a different mother. A very different mother. Her mom works for mine but who would know. We grew up together, been together for 18years. We had our first crushes, kisses, heartbreaks, dates and all together. We shared everything....or so I thought. I'm a typical sanguine. I'm as goofy as you can imagine. I'm the kind of girl that tries skinny-dipping, the kind of girl that does the craziest things just out of sheer curiosity I was free-spirited until it broke my spirit...

Common Injuries During Sex and Their Prevention by Funmi Akingbade

Bone fracture can happen during sex, especially if you naturally do not have a straight leg. If you are the type that loves salt and you take in too much sodium, you may likely be prone to fracture while experimenting with some new sex styles or positions. This is because while excess of sodium is removed during urination, it unfortunately takes huge amount of calcium along which makes the bone to be deficient of calcium and may lead to fracture during active sexual play. It is advisable to eat more fresh food, especially vegetables and egg yolks; they are a good source of vitamin D and calcium. These are crucial for your bones, and then cut back on sodium. You may also experience some form of fracture during sex if you take medications like steroids, cholesterol-lowering drugs, some weight loss drugs and some blood thinners. 

Common Sex-related Injuries and Their Cures by Funmi Akingbade

Due to the fact that married couples do some strange sexual stuffs, sex-related injuries are very common and they happen simply because somebody gets a little carried away.

How common are sex injuries? From the number of various clients visiting my office, I do have comprehensive statistics of at least one-third of adults suffer some form of injury related to sex each year. While sexual activities are highly physical, like any physical activity, they come with risks of injury. Although many can be prevented with bit of preparations and improved communication between couples, but love-making sometimes can really be a battlefield and getting hurt in the heat of passion could be a subject seldom discussed.

Night Travel And Bus Sex

This is quite an interesting one. I've heard a lot about the night bus sex thing but never really believed any. At least I have done the night travel a couple of times in the past and never noticed anything strange or freaky as the case may be. Saturday Punch took out time to investigate the myth and came out with very interesting revelations. 

At Jibowu, an area of Lagos where luxury buses load passengers to the Eastern part of the country, Chidioke Ekezie, a motorboy attached to a bus of one of the popular transport operators in Lagos, gave an insight into life on night buses, which he explained could be very vibrant and “interesting” as a result of the duration of the journeys.

Want to Have Fun While Exercising? Try SEXercise: Researchers Say Sex is a more 'Significant Exercise' Than Taking a Walk

Is this a lasting solution to excuses people give for not exercising? Well...Canadian researchers claim to have discovered exactly how many calories the average person burns during sex. They say that in young people, sex burns an average of 4.2 calories a minute for men and 3.1 calories a minute for women.

The researchers, from the University of Quebec at Montreal,  looked at 21 heterosexual couples aged between 18 to 35.

Who Should Reach Orgasm First...Man or Woman? By Funmi Akingbade

It’s not news that many men today can start and finish with sex in just a few minutes. While countless married women take longer time to get aroused and become properly prepared (physically and emotionally, it eventually takes ages for them to reach orgasm. But reaching orgasm and ejaculating at the desired time is always a question married men and women want answer to. Who should reach orgasm first, man or woman? Actually, anyone could be the first to climax. But men being what they are on bed, desire to climax with their wives together or admire it when their wives get there first. The feel of watching their wives display is a sexual thrill for them. 

Virgin Wife, Myth or Reality? by Funmi Akingbade

Each time I have the opportunity to counsel men on relationship and sexuality, quite a large number of them want a decent, God-fearing, nice and financially-dependent lady as a wife, but not a sexually naïve virgin. They reason that such a lady will definitely be a thorn in the flesh on the wedding night. They compare the task of handling a virgin on the bed with that of teaching an elephant how to dance. Putting it precisely, many guys are not ready to start fussing with a sexually-naive lady on their wedding nights.

Many argue that they are not ready to face another load of emotional stress after overcoming the stress that wedding preparations had put on them. They also dread the teaching rituals of every other night of the relationship. But this is actually the best part of the game. Why would you prefer some other fellow to help you act the lead role in the drama?. It is the person that acts the lead role that becomes the star and the super star.